***A note on "Doms" & "Daddies."  A Dom isn't just some guy who yells at you & orders you around. Some guy who calls you names while you call him "Master" or "Sir," who ties you up, spanks you & fucks you without reciprocation but meanwhile is afraid to get caught out by his wife or girlfriend. Some guy who'll play with you in secret but who's afraid to go out to dinner with you or take you to the grocery store or to bring you home to meet his family or have you come along to hang out with his friends—or even to marry you & make you his wife if thats what he wants.  A real Dom/Alpha male doesn't give a shit what other people think. He doesn't hide behind a keyboard or convention. He's essentially an outlaw, beyond law—he makes his own law & lives by his own code. He knows what he wants, takes it, & everyone else accepts it—or else. THAT'S what being Alpha is all about. Theres no bluff or bravado about him. There's no posturing or threatening. He's polite, courteous, affable, even compassionate because he isn't scared of other people. He knows-if it comes to that—he can handle whatever situation arises. He owns his ground & everything on it. He's the kind of guy other guys want to be! Thats the kind of Dominant/Alpha my husband is & that's why I'm so head-over-heels devoted to him & why theres nothing & no one else here or anywhere I need. If he wanted to strangle me to death this afternoon, I'd kneel down obediently & let him strangle me to death. I could think of no better way to die. To me, thats the only kind of love that counts—and, having against all odds found it,  I count myself the luckiest girl in the world.