Porn is  the method men use to imagine what they would do if they were women, how they would apply themselves to satisfying other men, what good sluts they'd be, what prick-devourers. It is often said that reality frustratingly doesn't live up to pornographic performance; the reality where men have to fuck women who aren't like porn star women, or not often anyway. It is interesting to note that the "real" women who really exaggerate the feminine thing, those who repeat a dozen times in the space of one conversation how "womanly" they feel, and whose sexuality is most compatible with that of men, are often in fact the most masculine. The frustration of real life can be summarized as the necessary rejection by men (if they want to be heterosexual) of the notion of fucking men with the physical attributes of women.

—Virginie Despentes