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Now comes the time you've probably been dreading all along. It's time to make amends directly to those who've been hurt and betrayed by your pseudo-manhood.  In apologizing to those you've hurt—either purposely or inadvertently—through  your testosterone addiction, you will at last put your tumultuous past in order and prepare yourself to move forward with your new sissy life.  But remember: this step is not primarily about you. You are not looking for pity, courting sympathy, or expecting to be forgiven. You are simply and honestly coming clean about who and what you are. Without excuses or rationalizations, you are saying you're sorry that your actions and attitudes have caused damage in the lives of others. You are taking responsibility for leading other people astray as to your real nature. Even if you'd been unsure, confused, or conflicted about your identity as a sissy, you are acknowledging that it was your responsibility to have been upfront about that confusion. It is important that you talk to all those affected so long as doing so wouldn't cause additional harm; for instance, if you have young children, or sick or very elderly parents; in such cases it is advised that you consult a healthcare professional before proceeding. Those who are long out of your life and who have clearly expressed no desire to hear from you again may, in fact, have a change of heart if they were to learn of the "new you." In such cases, you must exercise your own judgment. Enlist the aid of your higher power—Daddy—if you find yourself in doubt. Parents, siblings, ex-spouses and ex-lovers should be at the top of your list. Chances are that you have hurt and disappointed them the most. They should be among the first of those with whom you seek to make amends. Friends and colleagues, neighbors, and whoever among your casual acquaintance that you feel you might have hurt should also be included. Sit down with your employer. He or she has the right to know, especially going forward, who and what you are, and whether, under the circumstances, they choose to keep you in their employ. Yes, it will be painful and embarrassing, humbling and humiliating, but this is the price you must pay for the hurt you've caused others in the past. This is the toll you must pay in order to pass through to a healthy future without a debt to the past.