=sissyholics anonymous 4=

It takes real courage to look at yourself and your life with complete honesty.  Can you find the courage do that, sissy? Can you review your past behavior without rationalization and excuses, without throwing the blame for your own shortcomings as a man onto others? This is an essential step in the healing process. It is not enough simply to admit that there is a problem; you must accept the fact that you are the problem. Being a sissy isn't easy. Being a sissy takes balls! It takes the balls to accept the fact that you should never have been born with balls, that all your attempts to "man up" were doomed to failure from the start. Do you have what it takes?You must come to understand that your relationships with others could never have succeeded so long as you were living a lie. In your case, being a man was a lie. You could never be truly happy in your career, in your family life, in your own skin as long as you lived this lie. So long as you kept your secret hidden, you were doomed to repeat the same mistakes again and again. You can blame your parents, society, or even God. But ultimately only one person can take responsibility for your failures and that is you, sissy. Are you finally prepared claim responsibility for your past? If so, you will begin to heal. You can truly hope to change. But that change can only occur when you are fearlessly honest with yourself. This is why when introducing ourselves to each other we say, "My name is ______ and I am a sissy."